How I remember My Friend, Ade

Obviously didn't know him for long as i only joined the hub in feb/march time in 2007, but was easy to see he was a really nice guy,very helpful,and had a big impact on everyone's lives

ade was a fantastic man. had some fantastic times camping with him and everyone else,

always had time to help some one out if they needed help,

will miss him greatly

spoke to ade loadsa times on the pc but never rerally in person,he was a great guy wizzy always used to bang on about him so really must be a decent geezer,just hope hes not drinking all my beer up there and ps leave some angels for me m8y R.I.P ade what a true thg er

Ade was a well liked and respected guy, like others have said he was there for his friends whenever they needed him. I will always remember Ade through a song that he said i would like and yes he was right i love the song - not gonna type which song cos i think some of you already know which song it is. When i play the song i will always remember my friend Ade, spoke to him loads on computer but only met him a couple of times.

R.I.P Ade Miss you Loads xxx

Ade

well.. i never actually met ade, but to me he was a really loving, caring person. he always made me laugh and cheered me up when i was down.

Ade was and always be the greatest person i've known on dc and i will always remember him for the happy go lucky person he was.

r i p ade

we all miss you dearly

xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Ade became a part of my heart the very day I have met him on DC. It was a feeling when you know right from the start that it is going to last for beyond eternity. It is so rare these days when you see someone with a heart wide open, with a heart that lets you in and makes you feel like home without a fear of being hurt and broken. There was a fantastic inner strength in Ade that was helping him to live each single moment, to drink life as it comes, to take everything he could. His loving smile alone could make each day brighter. Deep in my heart I could feel how much grief, hardships, inner searching, failures and disappointments he has been through. But he has transformed all of it into his strength. He has allowed all of it to make him stronger, he has learnt to heal himself with love and music and he was teaching the others how to do it. But without a sign of a mentorship. He was pointing out to everyone in a gentle and kind way that they are the ones who can make the dreams come true, that they are the ones who can overcome each barrier and become who they are. He was full of love and he was sharing it and not "putting the candle under the bed". He was sharing light and he was as much real as you can be. You could tell him of everything just like you would tell to your mamma and even of those things you would not tell your mamma out of the fear and shame. He had this magic about him that would make you feel unafraid, brave and strong. Each single day that I am living, it is a great fight and each time I remind of Ade's words to me, I remind of his faith in me that was stronger than mine. He told me to have faith in me as much as he has faith in me and told me not to bring myself down. He would care for every word, he would listen to every sentence and would read between the lines. He knew what was in your mind and in your heart and he could finish the sentences before you because he was actually listening with all of his care.

And the great pride is Jean Paul - the son to be proud of, a wonderful friend with the same deep love and care. He has taken so much from Ade and Ade lives on in JP and in Elaine and in all the family. There is the very same feeling of the infinite love and I want to thank dear Jean Paul and Elaine for who they are, for their being so strong. I must say that everyone who has exchanged even 2-3 words with Ade could touch something eternal and full of love.

And thank you, dear Magic, for allowing me to be a part of the Hunting Ground...

*hugs*

Your Rasmus.

inever knew ade but he seamed tb a very nice person the way everyone talks about him

i never had the pleasure off taking to or meeting ade but he sounds like a wonderful person may he rest in peace under gods watchful eyes xx

I have just realised i have not yet commented on this post.......

I liked ade, never met him but used to nag alot. at first i never knew him and ninj was an item hehehehe.... thicko here.

When magic told me he was very poorly in hospital my heart went out to elaine and family, and when i was told the bad news that he had passed i was gutted for them all.. its one of the hardest things u ever have to do. He will be waiting for u elaine and jp, just u wait.

good laugh, good chap, i enjoyed nagging to him........:)